{"id":12663,"date":"2022-11-13T13:53:30","date_gmt":"2022-11-13T19:53:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/?p=12663"},"modified":"2022-11-13T13:53:33","modified_gmt":"2022-11-13T19:53:33","slug":"permission-to-be-boring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2022\/11\/13\/permission-to-be-boring\/","title":{"rendered":"Permission to be boring"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Another week and I have some words!  And maybe some cheese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-6.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12665\" width=\"411\" height=\"473\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-6.png 704w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-6-261x300.png 261w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 411px) 100vw, 411px\" \/><figcaption>Scuze the Quest shilling, but I will stand by the fact that these taste better than cheez-it to me!<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>First of all, folks, this is what progress looks like.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-5.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12664\" width=\"518\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-5.png 839w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-5-300x278.png 300w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-5-768x712.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 518px) 100vw, 518px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Would I like it to go faster?  Yes.  Am I a little sad that so far this progress is just taking off the weight I gained in Europe?  Also, yes.  However, I love me some inertia.  I&#8217;m pretty good at CONTINUING habits, so I&#8217;ll take my wins at face value and keep moving on&#8230; down?  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;d like to say a hearty thank you to Snap Kitchen and Factor for keeping my cakehole on the straight and narrow.  The subscription service adds one additional factor to pressure me (in a good way) &#8211; the meals keep coming whether I eat them or not.  So far, it&#8217;s kept us from going out quite a few times simply because I will NOT let them expire (and I have only frozen ONE).  I mean, it&#8217;s also just super convenient and the food is actually really good, so it&#8217;s not a hardship or anything, but the weekly food delivery is really helping things along.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-7.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12666\" width=\"311\" height=\"406\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-7.png 453w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-7-230x300.png 230w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 311px) 100vw, 311px\" \/><figcaption>Maybe it&#8217;s not the prettiest food but someone else made me pasta with chicken and broccoli for 500 calories and it tastes AMAZING.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>My average calories consumed per day last week was 1554, which seems to be about my limit for calorie deficits while keeping my sanity intact.  Most of the Snap\/Factor meals are around 500 calories, so two of those + breakfast is about 1200.  I try to skip breakfast every once in a while, if I&#8217;m not hungry (intermittent fasting?) and only snack when I absolutely must, but there&#8217;s been a few days lately where I just couldn&#8217;t THINK on 1200 calories and I kinda have to do that to work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, to balance the equation, I need to burn a bit more, which means a few things:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li>Putting on muscle (it burns calories!)<\/li><li>More low intensity cardio (10k steps per day)<\/li><li>Remembering how to run again<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>The last one might be more for my sanity, but I do also love the efficiency of a run for the calories\/minute burn.  There&#8217;s a tipping point where it just makes me hungrier (thus why I&#8217;ve gained weight training for every full marathon I&#8217;ve ran), but my modest goal to be able to jog a 5k again by the end of the year shouldn&#8217;t cause problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Dec2-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5403\" width=\"396\" height=\"394\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Dec2-2.jpg 596w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Dec2-2-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Dec2-2-300x298.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 396px) 100vw, 396px\" \/><figcaption>Looking back at my last marathon finish, I *may* weigh less right now than I did then.  Heck of a lot more in shape then, but still!<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>So, last week I had a few goals.  I wanted to run twice, bike or elliptical 3 times, do strength 3 times, and get as close to 10k steps per day as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul id=\"block-1bf9319c-a0a7-4bbc-a78b-f664c54b5ede\"><li>Monday \u2013 1 mile run, leg day, 11.1k steps<\/li><li>Tuesday \u2013 30 min bike, 9.4k steps<\/li><li>Wednesday \u2013 chest and shoulders, 9.7k steps<\/li><li>Thursday \u2013 1 mile run, 10.1k steps<\/li><li>Friday \u2013 3.5k steps (day off)<\/li><li>Saturday \u2013 12.5k steps<\/li><li>Sunday \u2013 we&#8217;ll see, but I&#8217;m off for an hour walk shortly, so I have high hopes<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>As you can see, I hit some goals and not others.  I&#8217;m THRILLED to be able to say I ran twice (even though it was one mile and slow as eff) and did not have any calf\/heel\/back\/body issues as my meatbag has officially remembered how to engage my inner thighs when I amble about.  Lovely!  I traded two bikes\/ellipticals for more walks, and this is okay.  It&#8217;s been gorgeous outside and while I should be doing both, I&#8217;ll take long walks after work over being cooped up in the pain cave on my trainer.  I squeezed in an Oiselle Dozen today instead of normal strength work since I missed back\/bicep day (since we visit the squat witch tomorrow and I am not sure which part of the body she is going to abuse, so core is safe since I can do that daily).  All in all, pleased with my week and we&#8217;ll keep building.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I made another recovery habit breakthrough.  I realized that I have put off stretching for weeks because my routine is LONG.  Instead of the goal to stretch daily, I&#8217;m making my goal to stretch for 5 minutes daily.  Who can say they don&#8217;t have time to do 5 minutes of something?  After this hit me, I&#8217;ve stretched most days since.  I&#8217;ve also rolled most days, and I think I get a gold star for using the massage boots and icing daily as well.  Very happy with my recovery habits (and how they&#8217;re paying off!).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This all takes a lot of focus and attention.  If I add up the 5 minutes here and 15 minutes there I&#8217;m spending on my health and fitness goals, it&#8217;s about 2 1\/2 hours per day.  Sure, some of this happens while doing other things (icing, massage boots), but it still takes DOING.  It&#8217;s important for this to be high priority right now and push other things below the &#8220;suck&#8221; line to stay undone &#8211; I love the incremental progress I&#8217;ve made and want to continue.  My body just FEELS different &#8211; I&#8217;m not as much of a constantly in pain sloshy meat sack right now, I feel&#8230; pretty good. Like maybe I can remember how to be me again someday.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-8.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12667\" width=\"427\" height=\"561\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-8.png 444w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-8-228x300.png 228w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 427px) 100vw, 427px\" \/><figcaption>I kinda feel like, &#8220;thanks I hate it&#8221; on my new one, but Joel disagrees, and I&#8217;m sure it will look less out of place when I have three more done!<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Balancing this with some hobby time and social time (which are both also sorely needed to make me a happy human) has been doable as well.  Work has, after about three years of being a ball of nonstop overwhelm, calmed down just a bit.  I&#8217;m wearing the hat I&#8217;m supposed to, I&#8217;ve handed off the other ones to the right people, and I don&#8217;t want to jinx it, but most days I can work a normal number of hours during normal hours!  It&#8217;s amazing!  I picked up my guitar yesterday and also finished and started a new painting.  I would like to do both of these more often, but again, they can fall below the &#8220;suck&#8221; line if I need the time for my health.  I&#8217;m working diligently through my backlog of photos as that&#8217;s my most efficient hobby (one I can do on the couch while the TV is on) where I can still be moderately social.  I actually even picked up a dumb game called Shop Titans that I&#8217;ve played a few times.  It&#8217;s like things are really coming together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-9.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12668\" width=\"537\" height=\"359\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-9.png 791w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-9-300x201.png 300w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/image-9-768x514.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 537px) 100vw, 537px\" \/><figcaption>It&#8217;s nice to see this view from the office and think &#8220;welp, I&#8217;m done for the day&#8217;, not &#8220;welp, guess I&#8217;ll eat dinner and work for another 3 hours from home&#8221;!<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>However, I also feel like I&#8217;ve hit the finish line of a marathon.  I am so, so, so very mentally tired.  After a race, I don&#8217;t question why I&#8217;m exhausted even though I&#8217;m not currently running.  I&#8217;ve had to have that conversation with myself a few times to remind myself that after years of 120-200% almost nonstop, 70% is FINE right now even if gosh I feel like a failure if I&#8217;m operating at less than 100%.  Because I would like to be back to capacity as soon as I can, I&#8217;m going to take the week of Thanksgiving off and do something uncharacteristic of me &#8211; nothing.  Sure, I&#8217;ve got a few house projects I&#8217;d like to do.  I plan to hike and bike some pretty places.  I&#8217;m sure I&#8217;ll hobby it up and get to the gym and stuff too.  But we&#8217;re not going camping or hopping on a plane anywhere.  These are my nine days to slow down a little and gather my strength.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I also am resisting the urge to go anywhere, to bring it around to the beginning, because I have a good routine going here, and I still feel my grasp on it is tentative.  And this is what I need right now to grapple this feeling and this progress and keep it going.  Routine.  Normalcy.  Permission to be a bit boring.  Adventure is exciting, and I am an unrepentant adventure junkie, but Europe and the events right before and after were a little TOO exciting (mentally and physically).  I need to slow down and be okay with just chopping the wood and carrying the water for a while.  I won&#8217;t go complete cold turkey, but we&#8217;ll keep the adventure to day hikes and bikes instead of things that are going to throw my carefully crafted routine off kilter.<\/p>\n<div data-counters='1' data-style='square' data-size='regular' data-url='http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2022\/11\/13\/permission-to-be-boring\/' data-title='Permission to be boring' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_3'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div data-position='' data-url='http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2022\/11\/13\/permission-to-be-boring\/' data-title='Permission to be boring' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_7'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2022\/11\/13\/permission-to-be-boring\/\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"standard\" show-faces='false' width=\"225px\" size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Another week and I have some words! And maybe some cheese. First of all, folks, this is what progress looks like. Would I like it to go faster? Yes. Am I a little sad that so far this progress is just taking off the weight I gained in Europe? Also, yes. 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