{"id":7424,"date":"2017-12-04T18:26:01","date_gmt":"2017-12-05T00:26:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/?p=7424"},"modified":"2017-12-04T18:26:01","modified_gmt":"2017-12-05T00:26:01","slug":"november-wrap-up-december-goals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/04\/november-wrap-up-december-goals\/","title":{"rendered":"November wrap up, December goals"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Well, it&#8217;s now December.\u00a0 The last month of 2017.\u00a0 Holy crap, that went FAST!<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-7421\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Nov30-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"402\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Nov30-3.jpg 592w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Nov30-3-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Nov30-3-300x298.jpg 300w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Nov30-3-88x88.jpg 88w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 402px) 100vw, 402px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Fast, unlike the trot of turkeys I did on Thanksgiving.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s talk about what didn&#8217;t happen, because it&#8217;s kind of a LOT.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Swim at least twice.\u00a0 (I swam ZERO yards.)<\/li>\n<li>Ramp up running (at least as much as I had envisioned November 1st)<\/li>\n<li>8 Strength sessions (I think I did&#8230; two?)<\/li>\n<li>Eating healthy food every day but Thanksgiving<\/li>\n<li>Tracking my negative diet quality calories.\u00a0 I did some days, but fell off after we started remodeling.<\/li>\n<li>Finish the Carl Sagan book.\u00a0 I&#8217;m at 70% &#8211; I&#8217;ve had to do this one in 10% chunks between my other books).<\/li>\n<li>Finish 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.\u00a0 I&#8217;m halfway through and could power through it in a night if I wanted, but I&#8217;m actually enjoying reading one section at a time and absorbing it.\u00a0 So, I&#8217;ll try to finish it this week.<\/li>\n<li>We did not make it to a comedy show.\u00a0 So I really need to figure out what to do with my 7 pairs of tickets because that&#8217;s a lot to do in one month.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>While usually I&#8217;d be bummed about admitting all this, not this month.\u00a0 My body has appreciated the break from formal training and has enjoyed just generally being active a few hours a week.\u00a0 My give-a-shit is at full capacity with the kitchen remodel and wrapping up work for the year.\u00a0 Here&#8217;s what I have accomplished:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I wrote two chapters in my book.\u00a0 Admittedly enough, I had two random days off, and those were the days I did it, but hey, small victories.\u00a0 I am now at 8.5 chapters of 15 planned, so I&#8217;m over halfway!<\/li>\n<li>We went camping and had a lot of fun at the tri series party.<\/li>\n<li>I launched one major update at work and am a few days from a smaller one.<\/li>\n<li>And, most importantly, we have finished like 95%\u00a0 of our kitchen remodel.\u00a0 Which is all the bullet points I need to feel good about what I&#8217;ve done or not done this month.\u00a0 When I wrote my To Dos last month, I seemed really concentrated on the logistics, not realizing EVERYTHING that went into the actual doing.\u00a0 I basically spent the second half of November painting things while everyone else did the harder stuff.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-7428\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"401\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-1.jpg 599w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-1-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-1-300x300.jpg 300w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-1-88x88.jpg 88w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 401px) 100vw, 401px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Holy crap, y&#8217;all, it&#8217;s a usable kitchen!!! &#8230;even if it needs paint and a backsplash and some other stuff&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m actually happy to have had the experience.\u00a0 Would I do it again?\u00a0 Yes and no.\u00a0 Doing the cabinets ourselves mostly just took time and having done it once, I would be *ok* trying to do it again if we weren&#8217;t under a huge time pressure.\u00a0 Paint and hardware, no problem.\u00a0 However, our in-laws replaced all the drywall and did the electrical and the plumbing (changing where the sink and dishwasher were) and I would DEFINITELY not have taken that into our own hands.<\/p>\n<p>I also do not regret paying people to do the counters.\u00a0 Like, one bit.\u00a0 They were 3 hours in, out, and on with their lives and apologized to me that it took so long.\u00a0 No. freaking. problem.<\/p>\n<p>So, while there&#8217;s still some minor cosmetic stuff to do, we&#8217;ve got a fully functioning kitchen and our house is relatively clean (and will be completely back to normal by the middle of this week).\u00a0 That&#8217;s a huge relief.\u00a0 I was pretty good about that through most of the process, but when we unpacked the last box yesterday, I felt so much more relaxed, much more than I realized.<\/p>\n<p>So, December.\u00a0 Last month of the year!\u00a0 This month is about wrapping all that up and returning to a bit of relaxed normalcy in terms of training, eating, and life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Let&#8217;s talk training.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-7429\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"399\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-2.jpg 596w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-2-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-2-300x300.jpg 300w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-2-88x88.jpg 88w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 399px) 100vw, 399px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>My cycling miles have gone from hundreds to tens.\u00a0 Like last week, I think I literally biked 10 miles.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>For sanity&#8217;s sake, the OFFICIAL schedule resumes mid-month because, reasons, but from now until then my goals are:<\/p>\n<p>#1 &#8211; build up my run miles and start incorporating a little speed 1-2 times a week.\u00a0 These can be little fartlek sections, track intervals, but I need to start seeing some 9s on my watch in small doses.<\/p>\n<p>#2 &#8211; resume strength training &#8211; 2x week, even if it&#8217;s just a Oiselle dozen or 15 mins of pushups and random stuff, I need this habit back in my life.<\/p>\n<p>Everything else will come later.\u00a0 I miss the pool.\u00a0 I miss playing bikes for hours on end.\u00a0 I miss lifting heavy.\u00a0 But right now I&#8217;ve got a bit of the run love back and I&#8217;m excited to nurture that!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Food\/Scale<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I give myself about a&#8230; B- for nutrition last month.\u00a0 I am so glad I cooked up so much healthy food &#8211; we ate almost everything, minus one soup I&#8217;ve got thawing for tomorrow.\u00a0 During the weekdays, we ate reasonably well when we were eating at work.\u00a0 However, at home, on the weekends, we definitely reverted to pizza (twice) and italian sandwiches on french bread and some other super yummy but admittedly junk foods to keep everyone fed and without prep or cleanup.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t regret it at all, but I remember one Saturday thinking that my intake for the day had been a kolache and four slices of pizza and a small salad.\u00a0 Not\u00a0my normal eating patterns for sure.<\/p>\n<p>My official weight average this month is 184.1.\u00a0 I weighed 24 times so it&#8217;s a pretty good average.\u00a0 That&#8217;s -1.2 lbs down.\u00a0 As frustrating as this slow going progress is, it&#8217;s still progress.\u00a0 And I know because this morning, when I weighed 184.7, I was like, ack, that&#8217;s up a bit.\u00a0 Last month this time I would have been stoked.\u00a0 I&#8217;m really hoping I can see a 170-something number this month, if I made it through Thanksgiving and a remodel with a weight loss, surely I can make it through December with the scale continuing to be my friend, right?<\/p>\n<p>So, I&#8217;m making the same goals this month as last month.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I will track all negative diet quality foods for this month starting today.<\/li>\n<li>Exceptions: vacation, Christmas Eve, Christmas, New Years Eve.\u00a0 Vacation, I&#8217;ll be diving too much to gain weight, and I&#8217;ll allow myself those other days to celebrate and not worry about calories or the quality of my food.\u00a0 Every other day is normal healthy eating because these are the holi-DAYS, not holi-MONTHS.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Life!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-7386\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/Nov6-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"512\" height=\"351\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Hoping to get back to more of this in December!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>December is a good month progress here because I&#8217;m off work for most of it so I can actually do stuff but also have time to relax.\u00a0 Last year I powered through a lot of my triathlon coach training.\u00a0 This year, I hope to make a bunch of progress on my book in a similar fashion.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I have 7.5 chapters left.<\/strong>\u00a0 I would like to knock out at least FOUR of them.\u00a0 I have five days off while Zliten is at work, and I&#8217;m giving myself one\u00a0of those days where I just can&#8217;t even and not making any progress between Christmas and New Years.\u00a0 If I can get more, great.\u00a0 The overall goal: it would be a nice birthday present to finish the first draft by next March.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Finish all the little kitchen things<\/strong> and get my house back to it&#8217;s normal organized chaos.\u00a0 What&#8217;s left:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bolster kick plate on the peninsula so we don&#8217;t need extra tile<\/li>\n<li>Fix tile spots<\/li>\n<li>Backsplash<\/li>\n<li>Touch up cabinets<\/li>\n<li>Paint walls<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I have a little bit of organizing I&#8217;d like to do with the spice rack and pantry but that&#8217;s all future goals.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Write a personal mission statement.\u00a0<\/strong> In reading 7 Habits of Effective People, I see a lot of things I do well and a lot of things I could do better.\u00a0 Establishing a core set of principles in an easily distilled statement I can refer to when I&#8217;m making decisions in all aspects of life sounds like a good idea.\u00a0 While my husband kindly brought up that I sort of do that on a weekly\/monthly\/yearly basis, I feel like crystallizing words around who I aim to be is a good exercise.\u00a0 Of course, this also includes coming up with 2018&#8217;s map and plan like normal.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-5349\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/Bonaire2-12.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/Bonaire2-12.jpg 597w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/Bonaire2-12-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/Bonaire2-12-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>We get to go back to one of my favorite places in the world!!!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Figure out how to travel lightly.\u00a0<\/strong> For this vacation, we purchased BCDs and regulators for diving (they cost only double the gear rental fee for just that week and we&#8217;ll never have to rent again).\u00a0 However, that means our scuba gear now takes up most of two large suitcases and the camera equipment takes a small one.\u00a0 We are going to have to travel REALLY sparsely otherwise.\u00a0 Good thing four swimsuits, two pairs of shorts, a few t-shirts, two pairs of sandals, and a cover up doesn&#8217;t take much room (but I need to limit it to pretty much that).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Take my annual facebook\/twitter break.<\/strong>\u00a0 It was mentally necessary last year.\u00a0 This year, I&#8217;ve found some awesome groups to be a part of, so these sites don&#8217;t stress me out as much as they did last year this time with all the political BS, but I still .\u00a0 It will get logged out on my phone the day I leave for vacation and I&#8217;ll limit myself to it when I&#8217;m in front of my actual desktop for a while.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Play some GAMES!<\/strong>\u00a0 This is usually the month I actually get a chance to lose myself in some video games and I really am looking forward to it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Catch up on my reading.<\/strong>\u00a0 Finish Carl Sagan, The 7 Habits, and choose at least two more &#8211; probably the 4 hour work week and Bedtime Stories for Triathletes, but I also just bought two running books that probably would make sense to read while I&#8217;m training for a half marathon, not to mention some new fiction I&#8217;m looking forward to&#8230; ah, the life of a hangry bookworm.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-7430\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"397\" srcset=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-3.jpg 598w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-3-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-3-300x298.jpg 300w, http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/Dec4-3-88x88.jpg 88w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>I&#8217;m looking forward to enjoying another month of THIS beauty we put up yesterday&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Relax.<\/strong>\u00a0 I have 24 days off work starting at 6-ish PM on Friday.\u00a0 While I&#8217;ve made it through a little less haggard than I have in some previous years, I definitely need some time to recharge and become a patient, pleasant, and kind human being again.<\/p>\n<p>Happy December, everyone.\u00a0 What&#8217;s up in your neck of the woods?\u00a0 Fun holiday plans?\u00a0 Heading to a tropical destination? Netflix and PJs? Becoming a ski instructor for the winter?<\/p>\n<div data-counters='1' data-style='square' data-size='regular' data-url='http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/04\/november-wrap-up-december-goals\/' data-title='November wrap up, December goals' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_3'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div data-position='' data-url='http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/04\/november-wrap-up-december-goals\/' data-title='November wrap up, December goals' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_7'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2017\/12\/04\/november-wrap-up-december-goals\/\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"standard\" show-faces='false' width=\"225px\" size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well, it&#8217;s now December.\u00a0 The last month of 2017.\u00a0 Holy crap, that went FAST! Fast, unlike the trot of turkeys I did on Thanksgiving. Let&#8217;s talk about what didn&#8217;t happen, because it&#8217;s kind of a LOT. Swim at least twice.\u00a0 (I swam ZERO yards.) Ramp up running (at least as much as I had envisioned [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[80,86,75,111,79,29],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paUhDu-1VK","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7424"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7424"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7424\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7431,"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7424\/revisions\/7431"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7424"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7424"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7424"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}