{"id":12472,"date":"2022-05-28T19:52:53","date_gmt":"2022-05-29T01:52:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/?p=12472"},"modified":"2022-05-28T21:54:09","modified_gmt":"2022-05-29T03:54:09","slug":"88-days","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2022\/05\/28\/88-days\/","title":{"rendered":"88 days"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Sometimes you know you need a vacation but gosh you don&#8217;t know HOW MUCH you needed a vacation until about halfway through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-13.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12473\" width=\"418\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-13.png 709w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-13-235x300.png 235w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 418px) 100vw, 418px\" \/><figcaption>#mfw I&#8217;ve been in the ocean for hours<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>10 days off &#8211; really and truly off &#8211; as in we didn&#8217;t even really talk or scheme much about work at all beyond poking our nose into work chat a few times to observe (and warm fuzzies about everyone handling things so well while we were out!).  I feel like my patience and perspective have been restored.  All the time away was very much needed, I had a great and relaxing time, and I actually worked on establishing some good habits including waking up REALLY early most days (6-7am), hitting the gym every day I wasn&#8217;t diving\/snorkeling and doing strength and stretching sessions daily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Soon, there will be a post about our vacation, but first I&#8217;d like to look beyond.  #projectraceweight starts today.  Yep, Saturday.  This is how I roll.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have had trouble prioritizing things over work lately.  That is in and of itself a thing I need to work on, but for now, I&#8217;m just going to use it to my advantage instead of trying to fight against it.  There&#8217;s a work thing that is more than tentatively planned for the end of August, which could mean meeting a lot of new people and likely some press\/interviews.  For many reasons &#8211; most importantly the confidence that looking my best gives me &#8211; there is now a work-related reason and a deadline for me to work on #projectraceweighttakefour<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-14.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12474\" width=\"568\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-14.png 973w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-14-300x198.png 300w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-14-768x508.png 768w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-14-900x595.png 900w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 568px) 100vw, 568px\" \/><figcaption>Also a chance to photograph something besides oceans, woods, and sunsets!<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>So, I&#8217;ve got 88 days.  I&#8217;ve set a very ambitious goal of 20 lbs.  This is a &#8220;shoot for the moon, end up among the stars&#8221; situation that I don&#8217;t expect to hit, but I&#8217;d like to approach.  This is still a safe rate of loss for me (up to 2 lbs\/week), though it&#8217;s aggressive.  It&#8217;s up to my tolerance to push as hard as I can without cracking.  Now that this is 100% my highest priority (ahead of training for races, even though I am still doing that), I shall pen a reminder to myself on what the next 88 days will entail:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#1 30 mins cardio per day (5-7 days a week)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The cruise proved to me that if I can wake up at sunrise and make time for (and actually super enjoy) 30 mins\/day of cardio, there&#8217;s just no reason I can&#8217;t find 30 mins every day at home to move my arse.  When this starts to sound hard, here&#8217;s a reminder to future me of all the things I can do to satisfy this goal without driving and\/or leaving my neighborhood:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Swim treadmill in the backyard pool<\/li><li>Trainer ride indoors<\/li><li>Put on your shoes and run<\/li><li>Put on your shoes and walk<\/li><li>Walk to the gym and do a spin class<\/li><li>Walk to the gym and do the elliptical<\/li><li>Walk to the gym and run on the treadmill<\/li><li>Walk to the gym and swim in the crappy pool (and bring backup for something else if the lanes are taken)<\/li><li>Walk to the gym and use some other machine for ish and giggles (stairmaster? why not?)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-15.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12475\" width=\"575\" height=\"602\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-15.png 895w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-15-287x300.png 287w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-15-768x804.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 575px) 100vw, 575px\" \/><figcaption>Everything I need is right here.  No excuses<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>This doesn&#8217;t even include riding my bike outdoors, swimming in the nicer pools or lake that are a short drive\/bike ride away, or whatever other class\/equipment options Lifetime fitness has.  This here is my lazy list.  I can be arsed to do one of these things for 30 mins a day.  I *may* have some designs on using some of these sessions to get faster (let me whisper the word <em>speedwork<\/em> into the universe and see what happens), but the one and only REQUIREMENT is to do them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#2 1-3x week trainer gym sessions<\/strong> (3x week lifting)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We paused our trainer sessions at the beginning of the year because vacation, then covid was rampant, then race training took precedence, then vacation again, and now FINALLY it&#8217;s time to get back to it.  We&#8217;ll be going at least once a week starting next week, possibly more (depending on whether the sessions expire 1 year after we bought them, I am unclear on this), and aiming to lift whether it&#8217;s with our trainer or solo 3x week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nov19-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8508\" width=\"419\" height=\"418\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nov19-1.jpg 598w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nov19-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nov19-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nov19-1-88x88.jpg 88w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 419px) 100vw, 419px\" \/><figcaption>Back to doing this stuff on the regular<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>These strength sessions include, non-optionally, a stretch and roll.  Stretching daily on vacation made my body feel so much better.  It&#8217;s not hard, it&#8217;s just&#8230; haaaaaaaard to get myself to plop down on a mat after a long day instead of the couch.  From my vacation-rested perspective, this sounds sooooo stupid.  But I know how things feel when I&#8217;m knee deep in it.  It would be neat to stretch daily, do some extra ab work on off days, and do other recovery things daily.  However, at minimum, I lift, stretch, and roll 3x week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, if we&#8217;re at the gym lifting, absolutely no reason we shouldn&#8217;t just knock out the cardio at the same time if all we need is 30 extra minutes.  This takes care of three sessions per week.  Then I just need to figure out the other days.  No problem, because I have my low-effort list above to reference.  Worst case, just like the cruise, I alternate between the bike and the elliptical for a bit (just like on vacation).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#3 Food, and tracking it<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nothing revolutionary shall be said here, and if you&#8217;re getting sick of reading it, I&#8217;m getting sick of SAYING it.  I just need to DO IT:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>4-5 days\/week: 1200-1400 calories (1200+ a little bit more for exercise if needed)<\/li><li>1-2 days\/week: 1500 calories (a little bit more on days I exercise intensely or just feel extra hungry)<\/li><li>up to 1 day\/week: up to 2000 calories (longer exercise\/splurge day)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ll be tracking daily and aim that my weeks average out around 1400 cal\/day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-16-1024x720.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-12476\" width=\"532\" height=\"373\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-16-1024x720.png 1024w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-16-300x211.png 300w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-16-768x540.png 768w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-16-900x633.png 900w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/image-16.png 1171w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 532px) 100vw, 532px\" \/><figcaption>Good thing the grill is going to get fired up more often for this sort of deliciousness<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m not going to impose any other restrictions, but to keep myself sane\/not hungry at this level, I need to employ all my dirty calorie-saving tricks like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Eating spicy food usually satiates you for fewer calories<\/li><li>Abusing the hell out of salads full of veggies and lite italian dressing, vegetables, chicken broth, and pickles as very low calorie but super filling snacks<\/li><li>Being nitpicky about minor calorie additions (aka &#8211; my sandwich doesn&#8217;t neeeeed cheese or mayo, my salad doesn&#8217;t neeeeed croutons)<\/li><li>Lots of zero calorie tasty beverages like fizzy water, tea, and an occasional diet soda if I want something sweet with flavor.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>I also need to remember that the next three months on the hunger scale, I should be aiming for a max of 5 out of 10 (no longer hungry) vs any level of feeling &#8220;full&#8221;, and that being hungry is not an emergency to be avoided at all costs, it&#8217;s totally natural.  And yes, yes, I know complex carbs, green plants, and lean proteins will fill me up on fewer calories than simple carbs, processed foods, and fatty meats, so of course I&#8217;ll trend towards the former.  But&#8230; not in any exclusionary way.  Calorie count is king, diet quality is merely its squire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#4 *Grumble grumble something something less alcohol grumble grumble*<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8216;Tis the last priority on the list, I&#8217;d rather clean up everything else about my diet before this, but I could probably do away with fewer empty calories that take the form of my favorite brown liquid-y relaxant, bourbon.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Oct17-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6335\" width=\"483\" height=\"481\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Oct17-3.jpg 597w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Oct17-3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Oct17-3-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/Oct17-3-88x88.jpg 88w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 483px) 100vw, 483px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Up to 3 nights per week, when the mood strikes, I&#8217;ll have a few drinks.  I&#8217;d like to cut that down to up to 2 nights per week as long as that doesn&#8217;t mean I increase the number of drinks I have on those days to balance the scales (cramming the &#8220;fun&#8221; into fewer days).  I am lucky that even at 43, I can easily have some drinks a few times a week and still get up in the morning and get on with my triathlete and work life &#8211; it takes a LOT for me to have a hangover that impairs my daily functions.  So, it&#8217;s rare that cutting down on it crosses my mind.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, my tolerance also means I ingest a lot of empty calories without any sort of satiety or nutritional benefit.  Also, let&#8217;s be real &#8211; while I can get by, I&#8217;m not at peak performance those mornings so maybe an extra day of being 100% raring to go per week will benefit me in other ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here we begin yet again.  88 days for 20 lbs.  Let&#8217;s do this thing once more with feeling, shall we?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have done it<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2018\/03\/20\/projectraceweight-take-three\/\" target=\"_blank\"> before<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It only made me <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2016\/03\/25\/1200-calories\/\" target=\"_blank\">go a LITTLE crazy<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I didn&#8217;t (quite) <a href=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2016\/03\/16\/diaries-of-a-madwoman-day-1-of-projectraceweight\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">kill anyone<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it definitely <a href=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2018\/09\/12\/just-watch-me-try\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">changed my headspace<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, once more, onto the breach, and let&#8217;s see how my life changes this time in the next three months.<\/p>\n<div data-counters='1' data-style='square' data-size='regular' data-url='https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2022\/05\/28\/88-days\/' data-title='88 days' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_3'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div data-position='' data-url='https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2022\/05\/28\/88-days\/' data-title='88 days' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_7'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2022\/05\/28\/88-days\/\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"standard\" show-faces='false' width=\"225px\" size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes you know you need a vacation but gosh you don&#8217;t know HOW MUCH you needed a vacation until about halfway through. 10 days off &#8211; really and truly off &#8211; as in we didn&#8217;t even really talk or scheme much about work at all beyond poking our nose into work chat a few times [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paUhDu-3fa","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12472"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12472"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12472\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12483,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12472\/revisions\/12483"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12472"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12472"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12472"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}