{"id":13498,"date":"2026-09-27T11:18:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-27T17:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/?p=13498"},"modified":"2026-09-27T11:18:01","modified_gmt":"2026-09-27T17:18:01","slug":"talents-and-developing-the-right-ones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2026\/09\/27\/talents-and-developing-the-right-ones\/","title":{"rendered":"Talents, and developing the right ones"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I&#8217;m pretty darn talented.  Want to know how I know?  I can with confidence say I gained roughly 5 lbs in 3 weeks whilst also walking 155 miles.  That&#8217;s impressive!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because I didn&#8217;t track one morsel, I can only guess where along the Cotswolds trail or the pubs or the impressive hotel breakfasts I found it, but it definitely came home with me.  On one hand, ugh.  On the other, I enjoyed accumulating every ounce of it.  Or I guess being in Europe, every gram?  Partial stone?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3-1017x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13501\" width=\"458\" height=\"460\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3-1017x1024.jpg 1017w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3-298x300.jpg 298w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3-768x773.jpg 768w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3-88x88.jpg 88w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3-900x906.jpg 900w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3-1280x1289.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-3.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 458px) 100vw, 458px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Lille, France<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I mean, it certainly can&#8217;t be the day in France where I ate chicken and cheese and fries and wine and champagne and charcuterie boards and a delivery burger, right?  That&#8217;s just what one does in Lille! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Regardless, I&#8217;m now on a reasonable mission to send it all back into the ether from whence it came.  Oddly enough, eating like a normal, healthy me for the last month did not put a dent in it.  Extreme work stress, fatigue from said 155 miles, jetlag and just the fact that Austin is still eleventy billion degrees is not helping.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4 week stats:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>1949 calories average per day<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>140g protein average per day<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>565 active calories burned per day<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2417 total calories burned per day average<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve been pretty consistent with the intake.  My lowest day was just under 1700 calories &#8211; right after I got back and wasn&#8217;t working out much yet, and I truly wasn&#8217;t hungry and just enjoying reliable access to vegetables and boring healthy food.  My highest day was 2350 which was &#8220;go out for BBQ then have 4 whiskeys&#8221; day.  Most were between 1800-2100, which makes the math work.  If both intake and burn are to be believed, I should be losing about 1 lb per week.  And I&#8217;ve done a pretty solid audit with chatGPT on my tracking this last week.  We&#8217;ve looked at my calorie intake and burn and are fairly certain I&#8217;m pretty accurate for both.  So, what&#8217;s the verdict?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>4 week stats:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>191.6 average<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>191.5 average<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>192.8 average<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>192.0 average<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Austinhalf2024-4-834x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13123\" width=\"343\" height=\"421\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Austinhalf2024-4-834x1024.jpg 834w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Austinhalf2024-4-244x300.jpg 244w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Austinhalf2024-4-768x943.jpg 768w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Austinhalf2024-4-1251x1536.jpg 1251w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Austinhalf2024-4-900x1105.jpg 900w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Austinhalf2024-4-1280x1571.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Austinhalf2024-4.jpg 1605w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 343px) 100vw, 343px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">I make this face at the scale<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>I know myself.  I usually take a few weeks to settle in after disruption and this was MAJOR disruption, but damn, this is frustrating.  At this point, my best bet is to keep at it and don&#8217;t do anything stupid as much as I feel like I should.  I know how unhappy I get these days when I try to nudge the calories down below 1700-1800.  It just doesn&#8217;t work with keeping myself in the proper protein zone and eating enough carbs and vegetables to keep me functioning in other ways.  So, my best bet is to try and keep that as my floor and lower the ceiling as much as I can unless it&#8217;s a big workout day.  So, next monthly checkin, let&#8217;s see what the trajectory looks like.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Speaking of big workout days &#8211; haven&#8217;t had that many of em this month and that&#8217;s been by design.  Once the race got cancelled, it took a lot of pressure off and let me not force anything.  Swim? Hah.  Biking outside?  No thanks.  I just eased back in verrrrrry slowly and am finally ready to maybe do a little athleting again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Week 1: Tiny, slow runs (4 of them, 1-2 miles).  Did strength 3x at home with much lighter weights.  Walked a little.  That&#8217;s it.  I was really feeling exhausted, stressed, and had no idea how I was going to feel normal ever again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Week 2: Set myself a goal of 30 minutes easy cardio 5x that week.  Almost made it.  All the non-walk cardio felt absolutely awful, like climbing mountains, and was a stretch to keep my heart rate down below zone: exploding.  Both Vo2 maxes tanked. \ud83d\ude1b  Same 3x week strength with reduced weights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Week 3: One more week of 30 mins easy cardio 5x with the possibility of a little more later in the week if I was starting to turn a corner.  I managed to do 5ks Thursday and Friday (36-ish mins each instead of my 30 min max) and a 45 min easy bike on Sunday.  Same lighter weights.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Week 4: Finally starting to feel myself again.  2&#215;45 min bikes with the heart rates slightly less ridiculous than the weeks previous.  2x5ks (~36 mins) just barely in zone 2, and a full HOUR run in zone 2 because it sounded like fun.  3x weights back to normal weights, less reps.  Vo2 max still in the toilet but SLIGHTLY improved.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1-1024x1014.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13460\" width=\"440\" height=\"435\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1-1024x1014.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1-300x297.jpg 300w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1-768x760.jpg 768w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1-50x50.jpg 50w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1-1536x1521.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1-88x88.jpg 88w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1-900x891.jpg 900w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1-1280x1267.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/June2026-1.jpg 2020w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 440px) 100vw, 440px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Basically life is back to lots of these selfies, which feels right.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Week 5, I am going to try my FIRST re-introduction to spice.  One of my runs will have 2&#215;5 mins tempo.  All else stays the same except maybe the time creeps up just a little bit on workouts if I&#8217;m feeling them.  Weights should stay the same.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The weather is supposed to hand us a lovely storm which will result in cooler weather, so the composition of the cardio is a toss-up.  I love running in the rain, but I also am not going to run in torrential thunderstorms.  I expect I&#8217;ll be very motivated to be outside a lot this month though!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>October should be an interesting month depending on how quickly the corner turns.  I have designs on doing something between participating and racing a 5k on Oct 17.  I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll be anywhere near primed and ready, but it might be fun to go out there and see what my legs have in a few weeks with no judgement.  I think the first one I want to <strong>race<\/strong>-race is early\/mid Nov, which feels like enough time to have my legs back under me.  The cool thing about 5ks is I have a crack at one every weekend I want to, pretty much.  So, I&#8217;m looking forward to a speedy fall\/winter as long as I am patient with my ramp up, which is always a challenge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Moving along, adulting got some progress, being home for a whole month is kinda cool sometimes<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li><s>Hang pictures that are in the frames (home and<\/s> office) \u2013 done<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><s>Get other arts I found framed and hung<\/s> \u2013 some! will do the rest over the holidays <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><s>Hair dids before Europe<\/s> -done!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><s>Eye appointments! <\/s>&#8211; done<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><s>Wills and stuffs and all the things our financial people asked us to do last time<\/s> &#8211; done<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hang the light fixture Joel\u2019s parents got us for our birthdays \u2013 before later this month when they\u2019re here next ?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Garage cleanout &#8211; at least the stuff that needs to go to goodwill\/office\/etc &#8211; this month maybe when we get Halloween down?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>All the stuff the financial people asked us to do in Q4 &#8211; heh, more to do<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bonus: house painting \u2013 eh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bonus: shelves in my office (but i see this as kind of unlikely) -nope<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Hobbies took a bit of a turn (and a focus).<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"353\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-2-1024x353.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-2-1024x353.png 1024w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-2-300x103.png 300w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-2-768x265.png 768w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-2-1536x529.png 1536w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-2-2048x706.png 2048w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-2-900x310.png 900w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Sept2026-2-1280x441.png 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">The insta feed is going to get a little more varied!<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Once every ten years I seem to have an existential crisis where I start thinking about what&#8217;s next.  Twenty years ago, I started looking around and moved companies to Austin.  Ten years ago, I got a bunch of certifications, thought about trying to build seven or twenty different businesses, and then decided I was going to get through Ironman, and after Ironman I was close to paying off the house, and then I got thoroughly interested and invested (let&#8217;s not call it obsessed) for a while with my job.  Now, I&#8217;ve been at the same position for a few years &#8211; likely the place I&#8217;ll stay until I retire if I don&#8217;t make any sudden moves &#8211; and for the first time in my career I&#8217;m TOTALLY OKAY WITH THAT.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I&#8217;m starting to look at what&#8217;s next anyway because if one part of my life is stable, we have to spice up the rest, right?  This time I&#8217;m actually looking forward, preparing.  When I retire, I don&#8217;t plan on not working\/creating\/building things ever again but instead removing the pressure to have a steady and significant income and work full-time hours all year from a particular address.  I adore the idea of having my own business, but I hate the idea of the hustle, and I don&#8217;t want that crushing stress of trying to live off unstable income.  I think I could do it at about 5-10% pressure though!  Between consulting in games and being an author and tri coaching and creating content I actually tried to promote and other ideas, I think I could string together some income, especially if that&#8217;s all I had to focus on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t want to get to retirement and start on this from square one though, so I&#8217;m starting to lay the groundwork really early and learn some of the things I&#8217;ve always felt weak at.  To this end, I&#8217;m going to take another crack at content creation for the sake of trying to get some traction on Instagram because I&#8217;ve always been confident that I can create cool things but never felt like I could promote them well and get attention and these days it&#8217;s definitely not &#8220;if you build it, they will come&#8221;.  If you don&#8217;t promote it right, no one will come, even if it&#8217;s really cool.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, @adjusted_reality is coming back to life as something besides a vacation photo dump.  I&#8217;m going to see if I can actually be me and also get views\/likes\/shares\/etc.  Just going from &#8220;Here&#8217;s some San Francisco photos&#8221; to actually sharing stories and being slightly clever in the captions is changing the trajectory.  I&#8217;ll let you know next month how it&#8217;s going.  If I can promote my silly adventures without having it be a full-time job and feeling fakey\/weird\/awkward\/AN INFLUENCERRRR then maybe I can translate it into promoting my book series when I publish it.  Or my consulting business when I retire.  Or whatever I decide to pursue whenever.  It&#8217;s a universally translatable skill.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/EU810-F40-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13499\" width=\"437\" height=\"328\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/EU810-F40-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/EU810-F40-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/EU810-F40-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/EU810-F40-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/EU810-F40-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/EU810-F40-900x675.jpg 900w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/EU810-F40-1280x960.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 437px) 100vw, 437px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Gotta love something called &#8220;The Bridge of Sighs&#8221;<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>In other non-experimental hobbies, I&#8217;m editing the EU trip first (because I want to remember all the stories to tell) and through day 1 of 20+.  The writing progress is slow but it&#8217;s moving again because I&#8217;ve remembered how to do it in little chunks.  No painting.  No guitar.  Walko taco will be scheduled when the high temps are in the 60s\/70s.  More games though&#8230; I played a Kill Team game with Joel and we are going to start an adventure game called Where the Water Tastes Like Wine when I stop typey typing.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, I think I&#8217;ll do that.<\/p>\n<div data-counters='1' data-style='square' data-size='regular' data-url='https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2026\/09\/27\/talents-and-developing-the-right-ones\/' data-title='Talents, and developing the right ones' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_3'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div data-position='' data-url='https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2026\/09\/27\/talents-and-developing-the-right-ones\/' data-title='Talents, and developing the right ones' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_7'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2026\/09\/27\/talents-and-developing-the-right-ones\/\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"standard\" show-faces='false' width=\"225px\" size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m pretty darn talented. Want to know how I know? I can with confidence say I gained roughly 5 lbs in 3 weeks whilst also walking 155 miles. That&#8217;s impressive! Because I didn&#8217;t track one morsel, I can only guess where along the Cotswolds trail or the pubs or the impressive hotel breakfasts I found [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paUhDu-3vI","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13498"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13498"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13498\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13505,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13498\/revisions\/13505"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13498"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13498"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13498"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}