{"id":5458,"date":"2015-12-19T00:34:28","date_gmt":"2015-12-19T06:34:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/?p=5458"},"modified":"2016-04-12T18:31:34","modified_gmt":"2016-04-13T00:31:34","slug":"errand-girl-friday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2015\/12\/19\/errand-girl-friday\/","title":{"rendered":"Errand Girl Friday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you know me well, you&#8217;d know that errands are my KRYPTONITE.\u00a0 I also hate, hate, hate driving.\u00a0 I try to order as much as I can online and condense things down to a store or two at the most, and always as close to my house or work as possible, even if I&#8217;m not getting exactly what I want or spending a little more so I don&#8217;t have to spend hours in stores or driving around.<\/p>\n<p>While I used to be a &#8220;shopper&#8221; when I was younger, I also didn&#8217;t have so many demands on my time.\u00a0 Now, all I want to do when I&#8217;m off work or done with my run or whatever is relax&#8230; not fight traffic, look for a parking spot, deal with a bunch of people who are oblivious and not paying attention, and then wait in a checkout line with tired legs and watching my free time tick away.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-5460\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof.jpg\" alt=\"Proof\" width=\"402\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof.jpg 595w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof-300x298.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 402px) 100vw, 402px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Proof I got dressed and left my house and drove my car.\u00a0 I may have been wearing a sweatshirt and running tights, but at least it wasn&#8217;t PJs!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Today&#8217;s objective was a whole bunch of errands for both Holiday shopping and just regular stuff, plus a run in the middle.\u00a0 I could have run around the house and gotten it done first, but I know me.\u00a0 I would have put it off for a while waking up, and then after I would have showered and lounged on the couch, and then it would have been late and more traffic-y and I might have blown it off.\u00a0 I also put on the list a place I wanted to eat for lunch (Parr&#8217;s Deli, great greek food) that Zliten doesn&#8217;t love as motivation to get my ass out.<\/p>\n<p>I left the house around 11 (a little later than I wanted, but such is life), and had a bit of a false start when some dude almost plowed into me.\u00a0 He had his blinker on and was slowing down, and then randomly decided not to turn and speed up as I pulled out.\u00a0 Awesome.\u00a0 However, it was not an omen.\u00a0 The day actually was&#8230; dare I say&#8230; enjoyable?<\/p>\n<p>I spent the day on missions.\u00a0 I often get distracted in stores, looking at everything, and then I&#8217;m like &#8211; crap, it&#8217;s been two hours, I&#8217;m over this.\u00a0 Not that I stayed COMPLETELY on task, I came home with a few extranous things, but I remembered today was about the list, not wandering.<\/p>\n<p>Second, it was bright and beautiful out.\u00a0 I think if it was gross out or dark I wouldn&#8217;t have been so happy.\u00a0 I was looking forward to getting to my run so I got through my early errands quickly and then after my run, I felt pumped up and happy, not tired, and was on my way to finish up my list with a great attitude.\u00a0 Breaking up errands with a destination run was a great decision!<\/p>\n<p>Third, I forgot how much I love driving around with the music up loud singing.\u00a0 When Zliten&#8217;s in the car, we have the music on super quiet or not at all and talk, which is nice, but I enjoyed my karaoke time.\u00a0 In fact, I was a lot more patient waiting for lights because I was like, man, my jam&#8217;s on, I don&#8217;t want to be there yet.\u00a0 I realized, like some people can&#8217;t walk and chew gum at the same time, I don&#8217;t drive and talk well.\u00a0 Music helps me concentrate and relax at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>Fourth, it was my only goal today.\u00a0 I didn&#8217;t have fifty thousand things to do like normal and get cranky at the tasks for wasting my precious time.\u00a0 This isn&#8217;t typically something I can replicate in normal, non-holiday break life, but maybe I can change my mindset (3-4pm is errand time, and that&#8217;s my focus) or something.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-5459\" src=\"http:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof2.jpg\" alt=\"Proof2\" width=\"402\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof2.jpg 596w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof2-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Proof2-300x298.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 402px) 100vw, 402px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>And finally&#8230; this was my reward&#8230; om nom nom chicken shwarma wrap!\u00a0 They even had caffiene free diet coke so I could have a soda with my meal.\u00a0 That never happens!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Over four hours later, I came home actually happy, not stressed.\u00a0 For me, this was a magical day I was not expecting.\u00a0 Now, I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m going to be volunteering myself for a bunch of errands in the future or anything, but I think I may be able to find a way for it not to drive me crazy.\u00a0 Sometimes.\u00a0 Baby steps.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Now, let&#8217;s ask the audience: shopping &#8211; love it or hate it?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<div data-counters='1' data-style='square' data-size='regular' data-url='https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2015\/12\/19\/errand-girl-friday\/' data-title='Errand Girl Friday' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_3'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div data-position='' data-url='https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2015\/12\/19\/errand-girl-friday\/' data-title='Errand Girl Friday' class='linksalpha_container linksalpha_app_7'><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='facebook' class='linksalpha_icon_facebook'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='twitter' class='linksalpha_icon_twitter'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='googleplus' class='linksalpha_icon_googleplus'><\/a><a href='\/\/www.linksalpha.com\/share?network='mail' class='linksalpha_icon_mail'><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like \"><fb:like href=\"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/2015\/12\/19\/errand-girl-friday\/\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\" layout=\"standard\" show-faces='false' width=\"225px\" size=\"small\"><\/fb:like><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you know me well, you&#8217;d know that errands are my KRYPTONITE.\u00a0 I also hate, hate, hate driving.\u00a0 I try to order as much as I can online and condense things down to a store or two at the most, and always as close to my house or work as possible, even if I&#8217;m not [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"spay_email":"","jetpack_publicize_message":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[81,88],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paUhDu-1q2","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5458"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5458"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5458\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5462,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5458\/revisions\/5462"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5458"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5458"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adjustedreality.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5458"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}