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2013 Resolution Recap

Meant to post this yesterday, but I was too busy creating 1995 in our house for a 90s throwback party, so I’ll start the new year looking back for a bit.  Here’s my 2013, in a nutshell, in terms of goals…

1.  Be a serious, focused, well and specifically trained triathlete following the Triathlete’s Training Bible plan.  Make a plan and stick to it. I want a shiny new PR for each tri distance at least, which shouldn’t be difficult.  The goal is to just to do better in each repeated race than I did the year before.  This will be discussed in detail on this blog because this is what I do – so for now we can leave it at that.

Mostly, yes.  I rocked the shit out of every swim and bike split.  Running was a challenge this year because of injuries, but I even pulled out some PRs there when things went well (10/20, marathon, Kerrville, Playtri, etc).  My plan got a little muddled later in the year, but I really think I learned a lot about what works for ME and will put that into practice in 2014.

2. Probably the single most thing I can do to improve my times is improve body composition.  I’ve had a few false starts at this, but 2013 is my year, I think, partly because I’m finally really getting it in my head that it’s not about looking good in jeans, it’s about PRs…

And, I realize that my strength is making goals and plans.  Here are the things I am going to do to get there (cut for brevity)…

What I am most proud of here is that through a full race season and two long vacations, I didn’t gain my loss of 10 lbs this year back.  So something is working.  I just need to kick start it again to make more progress.  I’m not at my “goal weight”, but I’m ending 2013 weighing less than I did to ring it in.  So that is a HUGE win!

3. Keep taking steps towards making my house not look like a slobby college student is renting it.  Our goals this year are:

  • Get a new stove, couch, front door, and coffee table
  • Get granite counters instead of this white formica crap
  • Spend the year focusing on getting more organized.  Each month, we will pick one room or “zone” (because some rooms need to be divided and some need to be groups) and pull everything out, see what we can get rid of, and buying or utilizing a better way to store and organize it.

Got all the new things but the front door, and that’s on the list absolutely next.  This was the year of everything breaking, so we spent more money than expected so the counters will have to wait a year or two.

I spent the first quarter of the year trying to keep up with this and found that it was WAY too ambitious and stressing me out.  Guess what you don’t want to do during peak training season?  Spend a weekend cleaning out and organizing a room.  I’ve got to narrow my scope here if I want to not throw up my hands and give up like I did this year.

4 Social Habits:

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a) Get better at being social without drinking like a fish.  Don’t go into a training hole where our friends don’t see us for months unless they drop by.

I think we were a little better.  We kept a recurring game night at least once a month or so with friends, and we attempted not to be flakes too much (except if we were racing on that specific weekend).  I can’t think of a two week period where we didn’t see friends, even during peak training. I will call this a win.

b) Completely cut out cigs by April 1.

0 cigs since Jan 1st.  The smell grosses me out now and I can’t imagine ever smoking again.  The best things have happened this year – I have no catch in my breath anymore when doing sprints, my fingers don’t smell gross and look yellow for a day after the weekend, and I don’t have to go outside when it’s hot or cold. 

Best of all, hangovers are typically a thing of the past.  I had NO idea most of what was wrecking me was the smokes, not the alcohol.  I can make myself sick with booze if I try real hard, but usually it’s only when I’m around smokers and get the secondhand.

I am still using the e-cigs, but I’m going through the equivalent of about 3-5 ultra light cigs worth of nicotine when drinking (on an all day bender, maaaaaaybe 10).  I can easily drink a few beers without one, and not even think about it, it’s just when I get to #3 or #4 I start looking for the puffer.

So, major progress this year.  Still a little nicotine but no other chemicals and I can do without sometimes.  I’m very satisfied with that.

5. Do something with the blog. Zliten and I are working on collaboration between his new GoPro and video making skills and my writing.

Yeah… not really.  We tried starting a new blog, but as Zliten found out, video editing is hard work and he got burnt out on it real quick, and I got a little stressed out posting two different places.  I’ve been lazily cross posting my race recaps there, and Zliten stopped that over the summer.

I would really like to do something with this little space here, but, like priorities.  There’s running and biking and swimming to do.  And work. And games.  And books.  And beer.

6. One liners:

Learn to sew.  I got a sweet sewing machine and table for Christmas.  I’d like, by next year, to have produced one article of clothing from scratch that I can wear out of the house.

No, but I did make a sweet remote holder for the bedroom, and the last time I sat down to sew I felt much more comfortable.  Next year, perhaps!

Take a nice, week long vacation somewhere in November or December once season is over (i.e. not cram both vacations this year into 3 weeks during peak training).  Hawaii? Costa Rica?

Yep!  Cocoa Beach + Key Largo fit the bill nicely.

Learn to scuba dive before our cruise in April.

Open water and Advanced Open water certified, and 15 dives later, I think I can say this is a check!

Take mental health days when I need them, and make sure that I monitor my crispiness during training to make sure I’m not too fried

I probably did better at this only because my vacation time was a little more spaced out this yer.  I also did better about warning my boss when I was really mentally thin, if it wasn’t a good day to bail, and he covered my ass a little on those days and was more understanding.  I was a much better employee this year because of it.

Play more games.  Since the office is set up, I can actually play things on my computer and I will continue to work through telltales’ library on the PS3.  Get caught up to level cap in my own game.  Continue to derive inspiration from my industry.

Sigh… the office was set up for about a month and then I realized I hated sitting at a desk all day after work.  Then, we went back to the couch and while I have played SOME games this year, I can’t say I played MORE than last year, at least in terms of video games.

Host a game night once a month.

Yeah!!!  While I didn’t play a lot more video games, I played a TON of board games and table top with friends.  I loved this and hope to continue.

Continue to read more.  At least 20 books this year.

I don’t know that I made 20, but I did make an effort to read more often than previous years, and I made it through a whole series and I’m onto a new one.

Volunteer more.  At races, at the park, etc.

I volunteered at 3 races.  I feel pretty good about that and plan to do it again next year.

As for 2014 goals, I’m still working on them, I need more time to think.  Since it’s a silly short weird week anyway, I’m going to take some more time and consider the possibilities!  A whole new year of calendar pages to mark up and explore!  How exciting!

Question: what was your biggest 2013 resolution, and how did you do?

2009 Resolution Round Up

Now as I sit here on the last morning of 2009, I’m waxing philisophic about the year, but not quite as much as normal.  You see, it’s been a very thinky last few months.  I”ve mused on my job.  I’ve mused on my weight.  I”ve mused on my running, and come to a lot of conclusions early, so today was just really to put the proverbial pen to paper and commit to what I want to accomplish in the next year.  I feel like I”m forgetting things, but it’s not as if this is my only chance, right?  I mean there is always my annual “before 31 to do list” and mid-year check in, and all that crap.  Man, I make way too many lists.

Anyhoo, let’s get onto it.  I have a house to clean and then copious amounts of booze to drink.

Kekekekeke ^____^

Kekekekeke ^____^ 12-24-08

Last year’s resolutions:

1.  Body: Will continue to eat in a manner that is mostly healthy as I do now and improve when I can, continue improving my fitness, and work on reaching my goal weight, whatever that ends up being, in 2009.  While I’ll always work on improving my muscles and endurance, I’d like to get to the point where the scale is just a double check a few times a week that I’m not way off track, and food journals are a thing of the past, by the end of 2009.

Did I do it?  …sorta.  I’m more into measuring my progress by my running pace, and how my jeans fit now.  150-ish was not what I envisioned my goal weight, but it’s where my body wants to be.  So there.  I am no longer food tracking, and I’m only weighing about 1-2 times per week.  If you don’t count these two weeks of vacation, at least 80% of what I eat, I consider a healthy diet.  So I’m pretty happy.

2.  Fitness: I will do at least one new exercise-y thing a month.  This cannot include running, DDR, yoga, traditional weights, or Cybil the arc trainer.  By the end of the year, I would like to transition 1-2 days per week to something like dance classes or volleyball or some other competitive sport OR seriously start training distance running/triathalons.  By my 30th birthday, I need to pick ONE of these to focus on and concentrate on it (and make ancillary resolutions/goals based on what I pick).  I guess what I’m trying to say is to start working out for a reason that is not just to make the scale go down.

Did I do it?  …well, I didn’t do this exactly, but I definitely went into the year exercising solely for weight loss, and now I approach it as a sport.  If someone told me that running would never take another pound off me at the beginning of the year, I would have probably stopped.  Now, I could honestly say I would continue.  I think that’s what I was really going for here, and mission accomplished.  I also got a bike and rode it a bit, tried dance, zumba, roller skated, did some diving and swimming, and rediscovered my love for circuits.

3.  Soul: I will pick something creative and establish a plan by my birthday to complete a concrete goal by the end of the year.  Decide if I’m going to pursue writing (maybe actually giving a novel or book of some sort a go), songwriting/recording, pick up drawing/painting again, acting, or work on selling my necklaces.  Maybe take up web design and flesh out this site into a pretty one like I used to do and really give blogging a go beyond just using this for personal theraputic purposes.  Realize that I need to pick ONE of these and focus on it or I’ll feel as lost as I did in 2008.

Did I do it?  …eh.  I tried to do the etsy thing and never got off the ground.  I tried to write a novel and got about 30k words in and threw a tantrum.  This blog is still just my soapbox.  I drew a christmas card for Zliten, but that’s about it.  That’s ok.  I at least stuck my toe into the waters here, that’s at least half credit, right?

4.  Get married sometime this year!  That’s about all there is to say on this one…

…hey, 100% there.  Next!

5.  Allow work to be on the back burner one more year. Of course, be open and receptive to any wonderful opportunities that fall into my lap, but work on enriching my personal life and hobbies instead of focusing on promotions, raises, extra responsibility, etc. Realize that having a 40 hour per week stable job right now that I can pretty much just leave at the office when I walk out the door is a blessing that is giving me opportunities to further the work on my body, fitness, and soul.

…hey, 100% there as well.  Maybe even too much sometimes, tee hee.

All, in all, not bad. It was a rough year in some aspects – shakeups at work, a lot of uncertainty with Zliten’s unemployment stuff, extreme frustration with my lack of weight loss.  However, I still have a job at a company with an awesome, successful, and stable product.  I made huge strides in my running, completing a half marathon and improving my pace at both slow and fast distances all year.  Zliten got a job in the industry right when it was looking grim.  We still own our house and make mortgage and the “oh crap” fund is still there.  We’re making it.  2009 was not the best year ever, but it wasn’t so bad.

So what’s up for 2010?

Need more fiber, apparently.  12-24-09

Need more fiber, apparently. 12-24-09

1.  This is the most important and different one for me – for one year, I am going to not attempt to lose weight.  As long as I maintain under 155, I’m going to put any pressure on myself to take off weight.  I’m going to focus on my running, and continuing to eat healthy.  This break really put into perspective how healthy I usually eat – I’m not eating horribly at all, but I’ve been feeling blech from eating not homecooked food for most meals and the sweet crap around the house (popcorn, almond roca, truffles, etc etc).  Now, if I *do* take off weight somehow, I’m not going to be opposed to it, but the biggest present I’m giving to myself this year is the gift of stepping on the scale, and not wanting to be less than I am, for once in my life.

2.  Running – I want to do a half marathon in under 2 hours, and I want to run a full marathon (no pace goal, just run the whole thing… well, who am I kidding, I’ll have a pace goal by the time I finish training, but anyhoo…) this year.  After that, decide what’s next.  Martial arts?  Triathlons?  More marathons?  Ultras?  Also, I want to make sure to not forget stretching and yoga.  That’s when I start getting injured like I am now with hurty butt.

3.  I will dedicate 6 hours per week to writing, revising, reading other books, or outlining.  I want to finish what I started for NaNoWriMo, and then move on to another one.  It would be peachy keen if I could do some necklaces, I would love to start songwriting, but I think this is my year of writing.

4.  I’m not sure exactly what I want to say here, but I want to figure out what’s next career-wise.  I have spent the last few years keeping my head down and trying to stay out of the way so I can support the creatives, get my check, and go on my way.  That is SO not me.  I can’t continue to do that forever.  I might not have the ability to get what I want just yet, but I want to have a direction by the end of the year.

5.  Some one liners: Travel outside the country.  Be more spontaneous.  Continue to whittle down my smoking.  Try something new with my hair.  Continue to draw things out of the magic hat.  Host some game nights at the house.   Attempt to keep a cleaner house so it’s not embarrassing when someone comes over unannounced.  Do more industry events and get over my boredom with networking for networking sake.  Play more games.  Continue to live a life where I can have at least ONE memorable thing I do each month (2009 has many more than 1 per month, but that’s my absolute minimum requirement).

So there, it looks like I have a lot to do, so I best get crackin’.  How was your 2009?  What are you most looking forward to in 2010?  What is your biggest resolution or goal for the next year?

Happy New Years, and I’ll see ya on the other side…

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